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Making your big day all about you

Your wedding day is one of the few days in your life that should entirely revolve around you. There are many traditions that people follow for their weddings, but these can often overshadow any little unique details of the wedding that make it personal to you. If you want your wedding to be unique and personal to you, then follow these steps.

Theme

One way to make your wedding completely unique is to have a theme, after all, your theme is going to affect the entire day. Your theme could be anything from your favourite book, film, or tv show, to simply something that you enjoy. For example, I once went to a music festival themed wedding that was conducted in a marquee in a field, and where all of the guests wore wellies.

Venue

Theoretically, your wedding could be conducted anywhere (as long as you can get the permits). If there is a venue or location that has some sentimental significance to either you or your fiancé, then you may want to consider having your wedding conducted there. If you spent a lot of time in Spain with your aunt as a child, for example, you might want to consider a destination wedding.

Rings

Your wedding rings are an important part of your wedding day. After all, they symbolise the eternity that you and your partner are going to share together. If you can’t find a ring that you have fallen in love with, then you may want to consider purchasing some custom made rings instead. Your wedding ring isn’t just a piece of jewellery, you are going to wear it for the rest of your life, and this way you get to be involved in every step of its creation.

Wedding Cake

Although your wedding cake tends to be pretty personal anyway, given that it is likely to have your name written across it, there are ways to make it more unique to you. Instead of going for a traditional white wedding cake, have it in your favourite colour, whether this be bright orange or mud brown. If you don’t want it to clash, then it could match the colour scheme of the wedding of your wedding.

Transport

If you want your wedding to be truly unique, then you do not want to arrive to your big day in one of the usual wedding car options. Even horse drawn carriages are overrated nowadays. Instead, opt for something completely unique. The bride from the festival wedding mentioned above arrived at the venue in a VW camper van, for example. Alternatively, you could go for a motorbike, a school bus, an old-fashioned police car, a red double-decker bus, or even a helicopter. Click here for more unique wedding transport ideas.

Although you may not want to turn into a nightmarish bridezilla, you have the right to have your day completely revolve around you, so why not try to make it as unique and personalised as possible?

 

Wow, them with your wedding

You don’t want your wedding to be like all the rest. You want your wedding day to stand out as one of the most memorable any of your guests have ever seen. Whether you want your wedding to be a pretty traditional affair or something entirely out of the norm, there are a number of things you can do to make your wedding stand out from the rest…

Unique Wedding invitations

If you want your guests to know your big day isn’t going to be the same old boring event, you need to start with your wedding invitations. Take a look at these unique Paper Themes to see the sort of personalised wedding invitations that will help you announce your wedding in a way that’s unique to you. Or, you could even get crafty and make your own using photos of you and your other half or featuring pictures and words that are unique to each recipient. It’ll be a bit more work, but your wedding will sure stand out right from the off.

Choose a venue with the wow factor

Traditionally, weddings were held in churches or government buildings. Now, there is almost no limit to the kinds of places where you can tie the knot. Tree-houses, underwater hotels, Caribbean mansions, the options are endless, they will elevate your wedding above the rest. Even if you do want to get married in a church, you can still hold the reception in a unique location.

Unusual Entertainment

Everyone has a DJ or live swing band at their wedding reception. If you want to ensure your wedding stands out, you need to do something different. Having a band and a DJ might be essential if you want to get your guests up having a good time, but try to include some unusual acts like jugglers, comedians, acrobats or even a petting zoo to make your reception more memorable.

Forget White

White might be the traditional wedding colour, but if there’s one thing that will make your wedding stand out, it’s ditching the white for a more interesting wedding dress. Pink, red, black – they all make a dramatic impact as you walk down the aisle, and if you’re stuck on white, you can just add little flashes of colour to make things more exciting and show off a  bit more of your personality.

Make your bouquet more exciting

Flowers are undoubtedly beautiful, and they set the scene perfectly for a wedding, but even the most unusual arrangements have been done for death. If you want your wedding to stand out, make your bouquet more exciting by using origami flowers, buttons, fabric or even dried flowers. It’ll look just as beautiful, and it will last a lot longer as a memento, too!

Ditch tradition when it comes to cake

Every wedding needs a cake, but that doesn’t mean that your cake has to be the traditional white fruit cake or marzipan. If you love doughnuts, create a tower of them, or if you’re more of a savoury person, create a tiered cheeseboard instead. It won’t be easily forgotten.

What did you do to make your wedding stand out more? Do you have any other tips to make a wedding more unique?

 

Themed Weddings

Themed weddings can be a lot of fun. If you and your groom are willing, you could turn your big day into an experience out of a book, or your favourite film. This an amazing way to incorporate the thing you love most into your big day. Done right, a fully immersive theme is sure to stick in everyone’s minds.

But, a decision like this isn’t all plain sailing. In a lot of ways, you’ll have to let go of the ‘traditional’ wedding. And that’s not always an easy or popular choice. Stepping away from the crowd like this means you need to get everything right. You will, after all, be under extra scrutiny! To help you out, we’ve got a few pointers on how to make this work.

Make sure you are both on the same page

The first, and most important thing is to ensure that you and your groom are on the same page. The chances are you have quite a lot in common, hence why you want to spend the rest of your lives together. So, draw on those similarities to find something which means a lot to the both of you.This could be something you’ve loved since childhood, like Alice in Wonderland. Or, perhaps it’s a film you’ve come to cherish since knowing each other. Something like a Lord of the Rings theme, for example.

In the deciding stages, it’s important you sit down and talk things through. Make sure that you’re both 100% happy with the decision. This day belongs to the both of you, so it’s crucial you get this right.

Have a dress code

If you’re going all out with a wedding theme, you need to go all out, and a dress code is a big part of that. This should apply to you and your groom, as well as your guests. A traditional wedding outfit won’t look right if everything else is, say, medieval themed. If you’ve got your heart set on a white wedding dress, this can be a bitter pill to swallow. The good news is, a headdress and a few additions may be all it takes to transform your image.

As for your guests, let them know about the dress code as soon as possible. Make sure, too, to include it on your invitations, so no one misses the news. To make this work, you need to give everyone time to find an outfit. In your announcement, be clear and concise about your theme to ensure everyone perfects their image. It may even be worth setting aside examples for those who don’t quite understand. This is especially important if you’re opting for a film theme. Those who haven’t seen the film in question won’t know what you’re after!

Adorable additions…

A themed wedding also gives you the opportunity to include some fun additions. These will be unique to your wedding and may be the thing everyone remembers. So, go all out. Draw on your original inspiration to develop ideas. If you’re focusing on a historical period, find out what the entertainment would’ve been, and incorporate it. A set of stocks is sure to go down well, for example. You could even include games, such as croquet, which were played at the time.

As everyone’s dressed for the occasion, you could even include a photo booth to capture the day. It may not fit with your theme exactly, but many companies offer backdrops and props which could work perfectly. Check out Booth Boys photo booths and others like them to get an idea of backdrops available. Even if you can’t find the perfect thing, it wouldn’t take long to make your own. You could still hire a booth but ask ahead of time if you can use your backdrop instead.

Make sure everything fits…

To ensure the theme works as a whole, make sure everything is in keeping. That includes everything from your decorations, to the food you choose. You want to create an amazing experience which takes everyone to another world. If you’re attempting to create a fantasy world, serving up a roast wouldn’t quite cut it. Instead, you could serve up “Breast of Dragon.” Of course, your dragon breast would be chicken, but that’s not the point. The added touch on the menus will keep the magic alive. It’s also worth carrying the theme through to your reception. Attempt to find a playlist which fits, and have fun with a themed buffet.

What theme would you choose for your wedding?

Charlie & Stu’s Barnsdale Hall Hotel Wedding

I have been planning on doing a real wedding series for a while now, so I thought there was no better way to start than with my best friends wedding.

Charlie and Stu had been together for 5 years, when they got engaged on 1st July 2010. It was something lots of us thought would never happen, including Charlie. They had already been living together for 4 years and had just had their second son. Having almost a 2 year engagement before the big day in May 2012. Charlie decided to book the wedding on Stu’s birthday so he would not be able to forget their anniversaries in the future!

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The Venue

Barnsdale Hall Hotel Wedding

Having chosen Barnsdale Hall Hotel, a beautiful location right on the edge of Rutland water. They opted for a civil ceremony that took place in the Edith Weston Suite, within the grounds of the Hall. With the beautiful sounds of a violin and a flute, playing Pachelbel’s Canon in D, as Charlie walked down the aisle. Accompanied by her Dad, Maid of honour (which just so happened to be me) and Mia, her 6 year old flower girl.

 

Barnsdale Hall Hotel Wedding

Barnsdale Hall Hotel Wedding

The Wedding Dress

Charlie wore a stunning fit and flare lace gown by designer Maggie Sottero. The gown was lined with a champagne coloured taffeta and had a beautiful ivory lace overlay, with a long tulle train. Along with ivory shoes and a crystal hair brooch that sat along side her vintage style up do. Make-up was completed by a lovely local make up artist, who also completed make up for Charlie’s Mum and me.

Barnsdale Hall Hotel Wedding

Barnsdale Hall Hotel Wedding

The Bridal Party

Charlie’s bridal party was made up of her maid of honour and a flower girl. I wore a stunning cornflower blue full length dress. I carried a posey of peach Vendela roses with ivory flowers that were hand tied with beautiful lace. Mia her 6 year old flower girl wore a Next ‘Occassion’ dress with floating petals layered into the dress. Mia carried a mini posey of blue hydrangeas and peach roses that matched Charlie’s.

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The Grooms Party

Stu opted for 2 best men, Matt and Richard, they had all been best friends since childhood. Stu’s Brothers were both Ushers for the day, along with Stu and Charlie’s Dads completing the grooms party. They wore matching black morning suits with cornflower blue cravats and ivory waist coats, their button-holes were made of ivory roses.

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The Colour Scheme

Charlie and Stu opted for a cornflower blue and ivory theme, with a vintage feel. Setting the tone of the wedding with an ivory and blue invitation. The flowers were blue hydrangeas and ivory and peach Vendela roses. Along with candelabras as the table centres with blue and clear crystals scattered on the tables. Each of the tables were named after different types of roses. The top table being Vendela which was the rose used in the bouquets and button holes. The name place cards were hand written by Charlie, they all had little blue roses on them, tying to the colour scheme. The children were kept entertained with personalised activity packs.

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The Wedding Breakfast

The Wedding breakfast was a 3 course sit down meal consisting of smoked salmon and prawns, Charlie’s favourite starter. Followed by a main course of roast beef and all the trimmings and a delicious cheesecake for pudding, Stu’s favourite. Guest sat at round tables of 8 people with a traditional top table, of parents, maid of honour, best men and of course the bride and groom.

Barnsdale Hall Hotel Wedding

The beautiful wedding cake was made up of 3 tiers, each tier being a different flavour. One fruit, one chocolate and one lemon. It was covered in ivory icing, topped with roses and trailing cornflower blue petals. The style of the cake complimented the look of the wedding and tasted delicious, it was even served at a BBQ the following day.

As it was Stu’s birthday he was given a transformers birthday cake during the speeches and everyone sang Happy Birthday to him. Charlie and Stu finished off the lovely speeches giving out gifts. The groomsmen where all given transformers cufflinks. While the mothers were given beautiful floral bouquets. I was given a lovely rose pandora charm for my bracelet while Mia was given a charm for her nominations bracelet.

The Evening Do

Their evening guests where welcomed with a yummy hog roast, that was cooked all day outside, along with drinks and a great disco. To keep the children entertained throughout the day and into the evening there was a bouncy castle, which was a brilliant idea. It kept the children busy and allowed the parents to sit around it on the outside tables and enjoy the day.

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The Honeymoon

Charlie and Stu spent a week in Sorento in Italy. Opting for a stay in a luxury hotel for a child free week, while their children stayed at home with the Grandparents. They are hoping to return for their 10th wedding anniversary.

Barnsdale Hall Hotel Wedding