Marriage has never been harder. Sure, there are far more ways to make interesting, but there seems to be far more obstacles that need to be avoided. There’s everything with social media, making it easier for people to cheat. There’s the fact that raising a child has never been harder, so the stress of money is bringing couples down. There’s many more things that we could go on to talk about. But instead, we’re going to try and calm your nerves just a little bit, because of your marriage is on the rocks at the minute, we know the stress you’re under is going to be extreme. Even if you know that it’s something you’re going to be able to work through, the stress of dealing with it at the time, as well as dealing with everything else going on in your life, is too much of a burden to bear. So, we’re hoping this post will show you that you’re not alone with what you’re dealing with, there’s most likely thousands of people in the same boat as you. So, let’s help you get out of that boat, and show you some of the ways you can save your marriage.
Lack Of True Time Together
This is one that most people are going to be able to relate to. Gone are the days of easily being able to meet up, spending way too much time together, and being the hopeless romantics that you once used to be. Now, life has no doubt started to get on top of you, and spending that quality time with each other is pretty much non existent. So to spend some time together, you should set out date nights. At least twice a month you should find yourself on a date with your partner. It gets you out of the house, hopefully out of talking about the usual family life conversation that you have, and actually reconnecting.
Cheating is a growing problem at the minute, and it really is ruining people’s lives more so than ever before. Often, there’s underlying problems that lead to this, and a lot of men like to put it down to sex addiction. It’s no secret that after you’ve been with someone for a long period of time, the action is going to reduce. But if you notice they’re always prying for it, getting angry when you don’t, and always making comments, they might actually have some sort of addiction to sex. Sex therapists are noticing more married men being diagnosed, and the root cause may just be that everything does slow down with married life. So, it might be worth thinking about how you can spice things up a little bit, and maybe just finding the time to be alone more often.
One Sided Relationships
One sided relationships are the absolute worst, and it brings down what once used to be a really incredible pairing. Often the people who the side is moving toward, fail to recognise that they’re doing anything wrong. So, have a think about how often you find yourself telling your partner what to do, or that they’re wrong.